Sueko Kubota

Sueko passed away on October 27th at the age of 93. Born into an affluent family in Mie, Japan, she experienced significant loss early in life, losing her mother at the tender age of three and two of her older brothers to World War II. Despite these hardships, Sueko remained a beacon of optimism and curiosity.

As Japan emerged from the ravages of war, Sueko’s character shone ever brighter. She embraced the changes with cautious optimism, finding wonder and new experiences in even the most unexpected places. One such instance was when she discovered a newly erected modern building in a nearby city—a Catholic church run by American priest and nuns. They welcomed her with open arms and a sweet tea, marking her first encounter with American culture.

The transition to a co-educational school system brought new surprises, as Sueko observed with amusement the timid nature of her male classmates. Undeterred by any weather, she would ride her bicycle for an hour each way to school, embodying resilience and determination.

Upon reaching adulthood, Sueko entered a period of Japan's rapid economic growth. She worked at a large chemical firm as a nurse, where she met her future husband, Saburo. Their journey together saw them move multiple times between Mie, Tokyo, and Osaka, following Saburo's career advancements. They welcomed a daughter, Yuzuho, and a son, Toshiro, into their lives.

When Saburo decided to leave his company—a rare and bold move for Japanese men at the time—it meant another relocation, leaving behind familiar faces and places. Though Sueko did not relish the upheaval, she stood by Saburo, embodying her role as the protector of her family.

In her new surroundings, Sueko not only adapted swiftly but also embraced broader horizons. She became deeply involved with Youth For Understanding, an international educational organization. Together with Saburo, they opened their home to exchange students from the US and Australia. Although Sueko had never travelled abroad and her English skills were limited, her kindness and warmth transcended cultural and language barriers. This enriching experience laid the groundwork for her next life chapter.

When Saburo reached his retirement, the couple sought a new adventure and set their sights abroad. With their son Toshiro in Georgia, they enrolled in an English as a second language program at UGA, packed their suitcases, and settled into a small apartment. English proved challenging, but Sueko and Saburo, classmates at the lowest level of the program, persevered together. Sueko managed household chores alongside her studies, while Saburo adjusted to new responsibilities, running errands and helping with groceries. It was a second honeymoon of sorts.

Meanwhile, their daughter Yuzuho was raising two daughters, Naoko and Shoko, in Japan. Sueko's desire to be closer to her granddaughters led her to convince Saburo to bring them to the U.S. They moved into a large suburban house, with Yuzuho, Naoko, and Shoko joining them. Once again, Sueko took on the role of protector, ensuring her granddaughters' happiness and comfort. She cherished these moments, often describing her days as "peaceful."

Sueko loved cooking and hosting small gatherings for friends, delighting in their company and her beloved sweets, which she affectionately called her "fuel."

Sueko's life was a testament to finding joy amidst adversity, and she will be remembered for her unwavering spirit, boundless curiosity, and unconditional love. She leaves behind a legacy of optimism and strength that will continue to inspire those who knew her.